I also don't think learning to not be afraid of death is a minus

I have to admit, I'm having trouble parsing that sentence.

But frankly, I'm angry with Kara. Yes, she was pretty frakked up, but she still had mondo responsibilities all around her. Maybe this was the only way she could find some peace, but it was still a selfish act in my book.

But again, it was still a better episode than a lot of what's been going on in the third season.