handful_ofdust

From all the times I have seen Cal I do not think at all that he has Asperger's. I teach all about Autism/Aspergerer's in my course. Cal is two years old and juat walks to his own drummer and I agree he is very shy like both of you. By the way I saw Cal quite a few times at the Christmas Party where he was being very social with the kids there. At this age they are still into parallel play and socialization is still in its infant stages. There are many two year olds who do not come when called, sit when you ask them and some won't eat at all in Daycare. He probably is still getting used to the food there. I am not sure this Daycare person can diagnose something that some doctors can barely diagnose, so she ought to lay off especially since Cal just started there not long ago. How much written observations has she done anyway? Has she asked anyone else to observe him such as the Supervisor? The other thing is if I were a parent I would be extremely pissed that a teacher went over yours and Steve's heads and instead of chatting with you and Steve in a meeting with this along with the supervisor present, (which in my mind should be the proper proceedure and one I advocate and teach) she went to your Mom who is not even the primary parent with this!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would take that up with the Supervisor immediately. She has no right to do that. The only thing she should be saying to your Mom is how are you? You need more clothes, diapers or you need to get this form signed for us etc and then have a nice evening. Nope she way over stepped her bounds there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!