Agreed with all of the above - I've met kids who seem far more Aspberger's than Cal. Anyway, if he does have a touch of it, he'll be part of the majority in our social network - which according to theengineer is calming down and thinking things over; I'll be resuming contact with people over the coming week.

ps- Cal's two, right? Someone at work had a spare, never-worn kid's T with the slogan "I'm two -you have been warned!" if you'd like it.